PARENT EDUCATION AND CUSTODY EFFECTIVENESS
(the P.E.A.C.E. Program)
The P.E.A.C.E. Program is an educational program designed to provide information to parents about the divorce and separation process. We hope this will result in improved parent/child relationships after divorce and a reduction in the number of contested custody, visitation and support disputes which now face our courts.
Information will be provided on:
The divorce and separation process and its stages.
The nature and effect of custody litigation on parents and children.
Parents' legal and moral obligations concerning child support.
How the Court decides child support issues.
The impact of divorce and parental separation on children and how to reduce its negative effects.
How the legal process works and options available under it.
When children are involved, divorce and separation are not the end of the family, but rather a reorganization. Thus, the P.E.A.C.E. Program's purpose is to enable parents to make responsible decisions which recognize their children's need for continuing, good relationships with them.
Children are generally better off if parents can reduce antagonism and play a meaningful role in their lives after a divorce or separation. Studies on the effects of divorce on children show that a stable relationship with both parents after divorce is the primary indicator that a child will successfully adjust to a divorce.
One should assume that the same holds true for children of unmarried parents who separate. Evidence also shows that litigation as a technique for dispute resolution often works against these goals.
Through education, the P.E.A.C.E Program helps parents understand what is happening to them and their children; thus they become better able to aid their children through this transition.
P.E.A.C.E PROGRAM CONTENT
The Program consists of a number of sessions comprised of a large group presentation and small group meeting, where parents have an opportunity to discuss the information presented and have questions answered about the presentations. A parent does not, however, participate in the same small group as a coparent.
The following topics are covered:
Topic 1: The Legal Process.
This part of the program is led by a judge or lawyer or both. It focuses on a description of how the legal process resolves disputes parents do not resolve themselves, such as custody and child support issues. In addition, an overview of the program, its goals and rationale is presented.
Topic 2: The Adult Experience of Divorce.
A forum on the adult experience of divorce and separation is presented by trained, qualified mental health professionals. It concentrates on:
A. The state of divorce and separation in America today, emphasizing that the participants are not alone.
B. The stages of divorce and separation in terms of feelings, changes in relationships and adjustments.
Topic 3: The Child's Experience
Also led by a trained mental health professional, the session focuses on:
A. The effect of divorce and separation on children of different ages and at different stages of the process.
B. The child's point of view.
C. The behavioral response of children to parental conflict.
D. The needs of children during this time and how parents can respond to them.
E. Community resources that can help.
Topic 4: Domestic Violence Issues
Led by a trained Domestic Violence Advocate.
A. Ways to parent with your former partner. The Parenting Continuum from Parallel to Cooperative Parenting.
B. Resources and support for victims of domestic violence.
In addition, parents are shown the P.E.A.C.E. Program video, "In the Best Interests of the Children." Children of divorce and separation appear on this video and share their feelings and experiences, interspersed with comments from judges, lawyers and mental health professionals.
For information on the Erie County P.E.A.C.E Program, contact:
Frank J. Boccio, Chief Clerk
Erie County Family Court
One Niagara Plaza
Buffalo, NY 14202
(716) 845-7444
(Text excerpted from brochure produced by the Interdisciplinary Forum on Mental Health and Family Law (New York State) and Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY 11550-1090
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