Adoption: At a Glance

  • Adoption is a legal process that creates a permanent parent-child relationship.
  • Once a judge signs an Order of Adoption, the adoptive parent becomes the child’s legal parent, with the same rights and responsibilities as if the child were born to them.
  • Adoption permanently ends the legal rights and responsibilities of the child’s birth parents, unless the law says otherwise.
  • Most adoptions involve children under 18 years old.

Where Adoption Cases Are Decided

  • In New York State, adoption cases are usually filed in the county where the adoptive parents live.
  • Depending on the county, adoption cases are handled in Family Court or Surrogate’s Court.
  • All adoptions must be approved by a judge to be final.

Types of Adoption

  • There are two types of adoption in New York:
    • Agency adoption (through an authorized adoption agency)
    • Private placement adoption (arranged without an agency)
  • The steps are slightly different depending on the type of adoption. 

Who Can Adopt

  • In New York, almost anyone age 18 or older may adopt, including:
    • An unmarried person
    • A married couple
    • Two unmarried intimate partners
    • A married person who is legally separated
    • A married person who has lived apart from their spouse for at least 3 years
  • Some people may not be eligible to adopt due to certain felony convictions.

Privacy and Legal Protections

  • Adoption court records are sealed in New York.
    • This means the public, birth parents, adoptive parents, and the adopted person cannot access the records without court approval.
  • Children cannot be bought or sold.
    • Any payment or agreement that looks like buying or selling a child is illegal and may be prosecuted.

Special Adoption Situations

  • International adoptions may require a readoption or a registration of a foreign adoption order in New York.
    • This allows adoptive parents to obtain a New York birth certificate.
  • If a child is being adopted from another state, approval is required before the child enters New York under the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children (ICPC).

Adoption Information Registry

  • New York State has an Adoption Information Registry.
  • It may help adopted individuals obtain medical or general background information about birth parents or siblings.
  • Identifying information is only shared if permission is given.

For more information about Adoptions, please visit our CourtHelp page.